With the ease and convenience of picking up hot girls at bars, clubs, concerts and other places where you might not have an opportunity to get to know her first, it’s entirely possible that you can go through one or more hookups without actually knowing the person with whom you are having sex with. Now, this is all fine and good if your relationship has consisted of not much besides a text message here and there before you meet somewhere and hook up, but if you’re actually seeking a little more of a friends with benefits situation, you’ll need to at least be friends. Though, it can be awkward to ask tons of questions, especially if you have already slept with her. So, you might have to find a way of getting to know her that’s a little more subtle.
If she’s on vacation with her friends, they are the easiest way to find out what she likes and dislikes. But many men are not so lucky, so you’ll have to resort to different methods. Next time, when you get a chance, take a peek in her purse (don’t worry, it’s not scary) and see what she keeps in there. This is the easiest way to figure out what she likes. If she’s carrying condoms in her purse, you’re in for a great time. That means she knows what she wants and is ready to get it, and we don’t have to tell you anything more. Additionally, the pressure is off you for remembering protection so you can focus on the fun. If she’s carrying around a spare pair of underwear in her purse, that’s even better. She’s probably used to quickies in the back of the car, or a little fooling around on the dance floor. Couple these two together and you’ve got yourself a girl who loves having fun and isn’t afraid to do dirty things. If you’re the kind of guy who gets jealous easily, even when it’s just a casual hookup relationship, this will give you a clue as to if you’re the only guy she’s getting it on with. If she’s got slips of paper with eight other guy’s numbers, it’s your clue that you’re not her only source of pleasure this season, so plan accordingly.