For most guys, shopping is the epitome of dreaded activities any girl might drag you into, Most men will try anything to get out of doing it because they hate having to give noncommittal shrugs and the same opinion over and over (“yes, of course you look great in that”) and they’re not able to get stuck carrying seven shopping bags and her purse all over again. It’s hard to believe, but going shopping with a girl you’re seeing even on a short-term basis can be good for you.
Walking around all those shops selling the seemingly same things with your girl can be a good thing, even if she’s just a casual fling for quite a few reasons. Most importantly, If you’re hooking up pretty regularly, she probably values your opinion. Suffering through going shopping with her can be great, because you can gently influence her shopping choices. Didn’t like that color she wore the other day? Steer her away from clothes that color at the store and tell her she looks really good in another one. If the lingerie she wore the other night just didn’t do it for you, maybe you can convince her to buy something a little skimpier to wear the next time you get busy. If she’s into you and wants to keep hooking up, keeping you interested is going to be one of the things at the top of her list. Keep that in mind and you won’t go wrong, even when you’re suggesting she picks out lingerie she never would have worn before you walked into her life and made her feel sexy and fun. If you’re willing to put forth the effort for someone you’re not even committed to, she’s probably going to be pretty impressed at your dedication and willingness to take interest. She cares about how she looks and she’ll like that you too care for her. Suffering through that shopping trip could land you with some great sex later in the night, so don’t pass up that opportunity or you’re bound to regret it.