Xpress is a site that EVERYONE should try!
Even if it’s not our number ONE dating site (an honor which belongs to SocialSex—see that review for our reasons why), it’s definitely a website that you should consider adding to your arsenal. We recommend that any guy looking to get laid should use two or three fling dating sites—Xpress is a great choice for at least one of them!
So, why do we like Xpress so much? Let’s take a closer look at this awesome website.
Xpress.com Review – Why Xpress.com Was Ranked #3 For Finding A Fling
Xpress.com is a website that can accommodate pretty much every kind of person that tries to use it. We love the way it’s a dating site that ALSO allows members who are looking for flings and hookups.
This means you can use the site intending to look for a pretty easy, quick relationship, but also browse the people who are looking for something more. Hey, we don’t mind seeing some girls who like fling dating as a two or three week long prospect. We’ve had great relationships that lasted less than a month—though three weeks is KINDA pushing it.
Another thing we love about Xpress.com is the fact that it’s such a clean, easy-to-use website. This is the kind of site that pretty much anyone can use, and you can tell it’s frequently tweaked and updated. The site is clean, streamlined, and the type is easy to read on absolutely every page. Hey—none of us is as young as we used to be, and sometimes our eyes start to hurt with all the “artistic” font choices.
What We Learned By Using Xpress.com Over The Course of 3 Months: Is Xpress.com Worth Your Time?
Xpress.com is what we would call a “solidly good” website—if we didn’t know that about 90 percent of fling dating sites are ABSOLUTE CRAP.
In that light, the fact that we got as many responses as we did is nothing less than golden!
We sent out 540 emails while we were writing our Xpress review, and we got back a fantastic 399 responses! The only sites where we got more were AdultFriendFinder and SocialSex, but those sites are so good it’s almost unfair to compare them.
Of those 399 responses, we set up a fantastic 31 dates, and actually had 24. These girls were QUALITY, even if many of them were looking for something a little more long-term than what we originally had in mind. That didn’t really matter—we still closed the deal with 21 of them on the first date!
We loved our time on Xpress, and would gladly recommend it to anyone, especially someone who isn’t sure whether they want a fling, a hookup, or something a little more permanent—just not us.
Best Emails To Use On Xpress.com: What Turned In The Best Responses On Xpress.com
Here are a couple emails that got us HOT DATES on Xpress.com:
“Hi, Jina. Your form in that swing on your tennis photo is amazing! I used to coach elementary school tennis, but I don’t think I could teach you a thing. Could I interest you in meeting up and hitting a few balls around? If it helps, I really don’t mind being beaten by a beautiful woman.”
“Hi, Kayla. Your eyes were what made me stop and look at your profile, but your “About Me” was the reason I stayed. I’ve never met a belly dancer before, but after a recent business trip to Egypt, I’m dying to see more. Are you dancing at anywhere local? I’d love to come see.”
Xpress.com’s Good Side: The Xpress.com Features We Loved
One thing we LOVED about Xpress.com is the fact that it makes it so easy for members to contact each other. For some reason, we think that the girls on Xpress.com are more willing to list their status as “Online,” and to actually chat with the guys they let see their profiles. We had great luck opening up chats with girls who responded to our emails!
We also love the fact that Xpress.com is a really low-pressure website, and they aren’t constantly shoving “success stories” of true love in your face like a lot of dating sites do. Xpress lets relationships develop naturally—or stay at the hookup and fling stage.
Tactics to Give You An Edge Over The Rest On Xpress.com
One thing we noticed about the guys on Xpress (not that we were looking at guys, just for research) was the fact that most of them did NOT have pictures uploaded to their accounts. Hell, most of them didn’t even bother filling out an “About Me” page!
Guys, there’s NO WAY you’re going to get a hot girl to notice you if you don’t fill out your profiles completely. Girls want to see that a guy is as committed to making an awesome connection happen as they are. If you fill out your profile and upload a picture, you’re already ahead of 50 percent of guys on this website. If you do it like we tell you in our guides to standing out on a fling website, you’ll get ahead of another 49 percent!
Xpress.com’s Bad Side: Because We Have To Nitpick Something
Compared to some of the other sites we’ve tried out for fling dating, the girls on Xpress are a bit more interested in “going farther” than on other sites—and no, we don’t mean they’re into butt stuff. A lot of the girls here are looking for actual relationships, which isn’t something we’re into at this point in our own lives.
Another thing we don’t totally love? When we were on Xpress, it took us FOREVER to figure out how to turn off the sound notifications, and we were constantly trying to get the damn thing to shut up every time we got a new email message!
Okay, yeah, that’s a good problem to have compared to some websites where we barely got any emails back, but still, it was kind of obnoxious until we found the toggle switch.
Xpress.com Review: What Did We Learn About Using Xpress.com For Finding A Fling Or Two?
We love Xpress. This is our #3 website for a reason—great responses, great girls, great time!
While it was a fantastic site that we DO recommend, it can’t QUITE edge out our favorite sites, SocialSex and AdultFriendFinder. If you’re looking for a good site to complement those two (or just one of them), this site could be the one for you. If you only have room for two sites, we DO recommend that you stick with our #1 and #2.